The other
night I was sitting on the floor finishing trimming my parents'
Christmas tree, when my father, who had been relaxing quietly in his
recliner looking around, asked, “Doesn't anybody ever get
appendicitis any more?” We are quite used to my father suddenly coming out
with things that he has apparently been musing about. (Once while he was getting dressed in the hallway he quietly pondered "I wonder how many people in the world have just one leg in their pants right now?") I turned to
look at him. “I mean I had it,” he said (he did, before I was born,
shingling the roof on a hot summer's day...he seemed to do an awful
lot of shingling, I think he likes heights). “Bob got it,” he
said with some emphasis (Bob is my brother and he had one nasty case
of appendicitis). “Well, I don't know,” I said. “I suppose they
do.” “But you never hear of it, do you?” he said.
That night
I was discussing this with Steve, my Significant Other. He thought
it over. “I think it's because we have so much other stuff now, a
lot stranger stuff than appendicitis,” he said. “More
interesting to the doctors.” I sighed. “I wish we could go back
to those days when the only things you had to worry about were
appendicitis and tonsillitis and stuff like hay fever; my uncle had hay
fever and he had ulcers for awhile – I remember the doctors telling
him to drink milk.” In fact my uncle got in the habit of drinking
milk with every meal. “But now they've found that bacteria is the
cause of ulcers,” said Steve, “and it doesn't matter what you
eat.” True, I said. In fact I'd heard that eating hot peppers when
you have ulcers is not necessarily a bad thing at all. The stomach is
full of hydrochloric acid, caustic, and if you can trick it into
thinking it's already peppered with hot stuff it manufactures less of
that acid. I haven't looked it up but it sounds right.
“And by the way when
you have the puke virus, yogurt is good,” I noted, “plain
yogurt.” Steve, agreeing that yogurt's good for pretty much
anything, wanted to know where I'd heard that. “Well,
from this guy Jimmy,” I answered. “Jimmy Westcott.” "Oh, tell me this story," Steve said.
Jimmy, I
told him, was a guy from New York City who came up to town on
weekends. In New York he worked for the telephone company and liked to call the young girls in our town toll-free. He, his mother, and his brother Alan lived in this big,
half-finished house out by the lake. Jimmy and the mother would only come up on weekends; Alan stayed there all the time
and didn't go back to New York with the other two. He was a painter.
His works were incredible. I have never seen the like. Alan probably
could have been very rich; he really didn't show his stuff in
galleries, though, and was just an unassuming goofball like us
(though of course we thought we were hot shit), and our
gang would often go out to the house to party with Alan during the week, when
Jimmy and the mother were gone.
The place was primitive – a big
wood stove for heat and cooking – a crude bathroom – no TV or
phone. It was barely lit at night and seemed a little ghostly but at the same time a little other-worldly
cozy, one of our favorite places to hang out, and Jimmy, who fancied
himself as somewhat of a pioneer cook, made homemade elderberry wine.
Yes, of course we drank it, what do you think? There were jars and jars of it
stacked on floor-to-ceiling wooden shelves in the kitchen. We'd
rearrange the jars afterward and hope he wouldn't notice.
Jimmy was definitely Not Right. He was a Viet Nam vet and whether or not he'd seen combat was debatable, but without question he suffered from something - shell shock, they used to call it. I'm grateful to all our armed forces members who stand ready to defend us against all enemies. That's no lie. But Jimmy...who knows, maybe he had shell shock from childhood. We thought we might embarrass Alan if we asked him though. And we weren't too interested, to be honest.
Across the
street from the Westcotts a family originally from the outskirts of Boston lived in a
big brick house which had recently been occupied by a Mr. Thompson – a good guy
who once broke up a fight between my older brother and Jimmy who
accused my brother of taking Alan out and getting him drunk (like
Alan needed help) when in fact my brother had only given Alan, who
never had a driver's license, a ride home from somewhere. (Mr.
Thompson had then brought my brother home all bloodied up, which
scared the hell out of me as I was alone watching “Creature
Features” at the time.) Anyway, this new family – mom, dad, and four
young kids – were all hellions and a whole bunch of us started
hanging out over there, too, including an old pal of mine, Pete
Prentiss.
Pete and I were strictly vertical friends – I was the
sister he never had. Though he's gotten somewhat surly of late, back
in the day Pete was a hoot. Sometimes relatives from Massachusetts
would come to visit and we'd all stay up playing setback until 4 in
the morning. I have fond memories of that house; I was sitting in the living room the very first time
I saw “Saturday Night Live.” (I was smoking pot at the time and
thought Chevy Chase was doing a real newscast.)
Pete Prentiss worked with his
father, Mr. Prentiss, doing pest control. Mr. Prentiss had his own
business and a good name, and was grooming Pete to take over when good
old Jimmy from across the street came to make the acquaintance of his
neighbors. In chatting with Pete, Jimmy thought it might not be a
bad idea for him to get his exterminating license too. He wanted to
sever ties with New York and bring his mother to the country to live
full time but he needed a job. He proposed that he would work for
Mr. Prentiss for next-to-nothing after he'd learned the trade from
him. Instead, after he got his pest control license, Jimmy set up his own exterminating business and began
competing with Pete and Mr. Prentiss who had been so good to him. (He also began keeping a large pig in his yard.)
There was not much welcome for Jimmy at the brick house any more.
Needless to say.
Jimmy had
also become somewhat of a political gadfly and once took it into his head t0 run for office
against my father, who served our town as First Selectman for 22
years. (Jimmy lost.) Nonetheless he liked my dad and every so often he would bring
us a huge braided Swedish coffee cake which he had baked in that wood
stove. These tasted great. We didn't have much else to do with Jimmy
except he did ask my father, who had grown up in town, to help prove
that the Westcotts were actually part Indian and if so, apparently Jimmy
would possibly have a stake in the proceeds from the local casino.
(He insisted on wearing a bear claw necklace with his exterminating
jumpsuit. This wasn't as absurd as it may sound since we do believe that he was indeed part Indian. Native American, for the politically correct.)
The Westcotts had lived in town for several generations;
in fact Jimmy's father, Jimmy Sr. (no one ever knew what happened to
him later) went to school with my dad. They chummed around now and again
but not often, because Jimmy Sr. was kind of a “bad actor,” as Dad
put it. Once Jimmy Sr. had stolen a pack of Listerine cigarettes from
some local store and urged Dad to go with him to some hiding place
and smoke them. Dad got very sick. But he did know the Westcott
family pretty well and had been to Jimmy Sr.'s house, and knew his
mother. “I recall she always seemed to be sitting in a rocking
chair,” Dad said. He didn't know how he could help Jimmy prove that
he was part Indian, except he did write a letter stating “Grandma
Westcott had a very dark complexion.”
I was a
little surprised one day when Jimmy asked me if I'd like to go with
him to see a play at the local summer stock theater, where big names
had often played in the 1940s. Jimmy got comp tickets because he'd
gotten the exterminating contract there. I had been to a couple of
plays in the past and loved it, so I said sure, why not?
Jimmy and I went to
several shows that summer, the most memorable being Sondheim's “Into
the Woods” which we gave a standing ovation. There was no
debating, however: these were not dates. I never had the slightest
inclination to go out with Jimmy on a date. In fact I quite disliked
him, though I never acted like a bitch, or anything; but by the same
token, not once did I flirt with Jimmy or lead him on. “Maybe
we'll go see a few movies when the theater season ends,” he told
me. I honestly was not very enthusiastic about seeing more of him,
but what the hell else was I going to do, sit home and twiddle my
thumbs? Besides, a lot of good movies were out right about that time,
not the least of which were “Philadelphia,” “In The Name Of The
Father,” “The Pelican Brief,” and “Mrs. Doubtfire.” And
again I never thought of these as dates. I believed Jimmy wasn't
thinking in that light either. Truly.
One night
when we were headed to a movie I asked if we could stop for a few
things at the local grocery store and drop them at the doorstep of my
pal Gary, who was awfully sick with a bad stomach virus and to make
matters worse was taking care of his 2-year-old daughter that
weekend, who was also sick. I picked up the usual suspects: ginger
ale, saltines, chicken noodle soup, tea, and Jell-o. Jimmy then
brought up the matter of yogurt. Plain yogurt is exceptionally good
for digestive problems, he maintained, and would do Gary and his
daughter a great deal of good. Though I didn't know it then (which
is beside the point) he was absolutely right – yogurt does replace
the good bacteria in your gut that are taken down by infections,
viruses and various medications, especially antibiotics. I indeed
bought the yogurt. (I also bought some Spam as kind of a joke.)
The night
was cold and the winter air was still as we left the store. I
pictured poor Gary as I hustled through the parking lot headed for
Jimmy's truck. I was glad it wasn't me for a change. I thought how
much I missed summer weather and wondered vaguely what the movie
would be like; and then Jimmy, of all things, suddenly broke the silence and let one rip. Loud and two syllables. It
reverberated in the still night air and I'm grateful we were outside
because in fact it sounded like it would be foul. I had no doubt, in
fact.
Well, I was greatly taken aback and quite offended even though
Jimmy did say “Oh, excuse me,” in his corncob-pipe-smoker's
voice. Excuse him hell. You have to earn the right to fart in front
of people, I believed, and Jimmy wasn't familiar enough with me to
have been so uncouth. Though I like a good fart as well as the next
person (especially if it's my own) I just felt that Jimmy had taken
too much license. I was not pleased.
So when
Jimmy pulled into the parking lot at the theater, though I was
grateful he hadn't done another one in the heated truck, I was not
feeling very friendly to him. Unfortunately he was feeling overly
friendly toward me. He declared that he had romantic feelings and knew that I had been going through some stressful times of late
but he figured that by now I would be more amenable to going further
than just a box of popcorn on the seat between us. I was not.
He
tried to kiss me and I leaned away, saying what you always say in
cases such as this: “Gee, I'm flattered, Jimmy, but I'm sorry, I
just don't feel that way about you.” Smile. Jimmy wasn't happy.
He kept leaning over and I kept leaning away. As far away as I could
without getting out of the truck. Finally he stopped and we went in
to the movie. I forget now which one it was. It seemed to be a
regular sort of evening after that but guess what? Jimmy never called
me again. I was okay with that. I was tired of always attracting
nuts, as a matter of fact.
A couple of
years went by. I saw Jimmy occasionally in the store, sometimes with
his mother, who was a beautiful woman with long grey hair. We –
Jimmy and I – avoided each other. At least I avoided him. Then, I
got a call from my friend Heather, whom I've known for so long it's
almost embarrassing. Heather was getting married! Everyone was so
pleased for her and her intended, Dan. I bought a lovely wall plaque
for them as a wedding gift; it had a pink background (one of
Heather's favorite colors, and mine too) and said “Bless This
House.” A couple of weeks before the wedding I called to ask if I
could drop it off at their house. “Sure, you can come out,” she
said.
Heather and her two grown daughters were sitting at the dining
room table. Dan was in watching TV and Heather was on the phone,
rather frantic, it seemed to me. When she hung up from whoever it
was she said “Listen to this. Dan and I are having a hell of a
time getting somebody to marry us. I called Jimmy Westcott because
he's a Justice of the Peace, and he won't do it.” I was surprised;
Jimmy was a cousin of sorts to Debbie Hammond, who had been a longtime foster
sister to Heather and her family after her own parents died. It was
only natural for Heather to think of calling Jimmy. “Why
won't he?” I innocently asked. “He asked me, is Laurie Blair
going to be at your wedding? I said of course she is, she's one of
my best friends. And he said I'm not doing it then, because Laurie
broke my heart, you know. She ran away with that goddam Pete Prentiss.”
That's right; Pete Prentiss the exterminator, whose father had taken
Jimmy under his wing only to have Jimmy break away and become, in
fact, his arch rival in the bug business. (Weasel.) Apparently Jimmy thought there was more here than met the eye.
Heather did succeed in finding someone to officiate at her wedding, thank goodness. I went. It was at the house, and the reception was outside. My skirt was too short, the food was great and Heather, her sister Lisa and I linked arms after a few drinks and sang "My Guy" together. All went very well. Of course I never ran away with Pete Prentiss but let Jimmy think that if he wants. Karma, Jimmy! I am just glad Heather didn't hold it against me that I broke Jimmy Westcott's heart and consequently he'd refused to do her wedding (though I think he drove by during the reception). I have no interest in whether or not he still has his appendix.